Saturday, April 04, 2015

MELS LOVE LAND 31 LOVING TIPS to Let Love Lead the Way

Some tips. Some Love. Some wisdom shared in the hopes you feel a shift in your perception into magnificent love of yourself and the world we share.  That today you take a moment to Consider the possibility there is another way to look at the situation.  Take this moment, right now and shower it with love.  Choose in this moment to see the happiness of your souls endeavors,  Take the path that you forge that allows you to march to the beat of your own drummer, that allows you the freedom to cherish your most authentic self and celebrate all that it is and all that you are as we, together, extend that privilege to all we meet!

Take the pledge today to be a LOVER of your life exactly as it is. Take Mels Love Land Pledge and join MEL as I kick off the Be Love Land documentary collaboration in Love Land, Colorado at "B" Sweet Cupcakes 4/10.

Excerpted from MELS LOVE LAND these loving tips just might help you click into your inner mechanism of awesomeness where love leads the way and life can be trusted and your heart is safe and you are remembering you are healed and whole and present and loved. SO loved.

I share these from the space of what I have gained and lost from this loving work, sharing the ways life has opened up and the world has become one giant miracle in loving action.  Yes, filled with challenges, but also people to cherish and love and experiences to thrill in, and adventures to unfold and stories to tell and inspirations to flow and possibilities to open into.  

Number one is a big one and one of those to remind you to stop and just be love land in your life.

1) Sometimes there is nothing to do but be loving.

2)  Things that I thought took so much time to unfold, really took no time at all upon their completion.  The experience was everything.

Like Einstein shared 'Time and space are illusions of consciousness' let it all go, and be present.  Everything happens in the perfect time.

3) No matter what circumstance seems to be put in front of you, the deepest truth of our loving humanity is always available.

Why worry.  Worry is a choice. Choose to be love instead of worrying.  Whatever happens you are going to be fine or you are going to be dead.  Have fun.  Be Powerful. Be Loving. Share your Heart.

4)  Mistakes mean nothing in the course of a life well lived, where the foolishness of love are the adventures of the soul.

Live your life.  Don't hold back. Dance when your feet want to dance.  Burn the candle. Feel the love.  Share your passion.  Walk through an open door.  Take a nap. Do whatever your heart wants to in the commitment to expanding your practice of humanity.

5)  Love is the most powerful force in every situation.

Let Love Lead the way.  Enjoy the breeze of grace.  Live in the fullness of now and enjoy the joy and thrill that brings the soul in allowing the moment to flourish.  Allow the power that blossoms the seed into its promised code and on and on to flow.

6) Practicing love is the exercise of the heart

Life is filled with mistakes and pains of growth and surprises and joys and failures and successes who is to say anything is a problem.  You are exercising your life you are fulfilling a practice of mastering the joys of experience.

7) Love's perfection lies in the acceptance of each moment.

 Acceptance.  Forgiveness.  Love. This Moment. That is All.

8) When you let love lead the way you always end up exactly where you are supposed to be.

You are never lost, you are merely on your way to being found.

9)  If you are not thinking with love what you are seeing and saying (to yourself and others) is not real.

***This one is a blink, blink, blinky mcblinkerson one, requiring a love yourself heart opening detachment and release of the ‘you’ve got to be kidding me.’

Vision is an expression of the heart.  Allow your heart to see and find yourself in the presence of the miracle of each encounter.

10 ) Love does not live in the past or predict the future, it is complete in this present moment, highlighting what needs 'present' attention beyond the blocks of self false beliefs placed in front of the heart.

The past is over it can touch you not.  Enjoy this simple statement and unhinge your present to be something magnificent.

11) People find loving tough because on some deep level we all get the simplicity of Martin Luther King Jr. influenced by love statement 'our job isn’t to like everyone, it is to love them.'  So those that bug us, irritate us, drive us to the brink, are in our lives to teach us love.

Don't be one of these people.  Love and allow that to create a powerful boundary between you and everyone you encounter.  Love sometimes says no and it says it so clearly there is no where to go.  Love invites more love and gives every situation the power of possibility.

12) When you think it hurts to much to love and you want to close your heart and call those who seem to hurt you names and point out why they are assholes, love more deeply, it only means that you love yourself enough to remember how closing your heart brings you pain.

The ache of the heart is your compassion and self love pouring into new air.  Expanding without reserve.  Embrace and celebrate the assholes in your atmosphere and choose to see all of it as a call to love and send loving blessings and then get the hell away from any asshole.

13)  Wisdom and understanding and forgiveness flow freely from an open heart.

The soul knows where it belongs, not some of the time, all of the time.  Forgiveness is the grace of forgiveness.

The heart is the force of truth allow it to live its truth and have fun going along for the ride.

14)  Giving is receiving in loving action.

Giving acknowledges you know how much you have received.  It reminds you that the flow of life is eternal as energy in loving motion of the profound extension of possibilities.

15) Losses are openings to a beautiful understanding of the magic of nature.

Celebrate what falls away and demonstrates the grace of the cycles of life.

16) The work of love always being the answer – arrives at many results.

When you choose Love.  You choose to embrace your authentic path, purpose, soul's code and learn to be at peace with all outcomes as the gifts that they are.  The unfriending.  The disappearing acts. The blow ups the extra and extraordinary love that flows in and you recognize as the completion of your cycle of life.

17) What disappears in the practice of love is not meant for you at this time.

When something goes, allow it the grace and blessing and privilege of its flow cycle as you embrace yours.  Wanting something to be different than it is keeps you living in the gap.  Embrace what is and find the explosive joy of ecstatic recognition of your loving self.

18)  Love sometimes brings in a punch in the face, this does not mean there is anything wrong with loving someone.  It means that you take back your keys, move quickly away from them.

Do not accept unacceptable behavior.  Do not accept unacceptable behavior.  Do not accept unacceptable behavior.

20) No matter how many labels, ideas, letters, slurs, hashtags, we are all the same in love.

Nothing that comes up changes that force of aliveness.


21) Seeds always grow.  Plant them with love and save yourself the heartache of the weeds of anxiety and fear.

Seeds are planted for change, for food, for love, for empowerment, for nourishment, for ideas, for dreams, for life, for joy for passion, for humanity, for society, for government rulers for leaders for peace.

22) Love never ends and remains long beyond the form of the individual.

Love is.

23) The earth has been spinning around for a long ass time.

There was an expression I heard a long time ago at the Post Office by one of the long time workers.  "Bend over, here it comes Again."  (BOHICA)  You get to do everything again.  No worries.

24) There is no journey, there is only remembering the truth with love.

Keep the smiles and the joy and the grace and the forgiveness flowing.

25) You are guilty or guiltless, bound or free, unhappy or happy, simple by choosing love over fear.

We choose the players we play with.  You are not the problem and you are the problem.  Have fun!

26) Life is complicated, love is not.

So, why not dance!

27) Love's expression takes different forms with various people and places in time, it continues on and keeps us connected.

Endings are beginnings and life keeps on marching, evolving and gracing us with miracles.

28) Love has no end!

Enter the deep river of loving wisdom and float in peace.

29) Love may express itself in one person or at one time as a mother's love, and at another, as a romantic partner, a teacher, healer, a business partner, etc. Our sacred contracts with each other take different forms or expressions of Love.   While not all sacred relationships are meant to result in love affairs - all are the affairs/expressions of Love! One Love expression isn't fuller, truer or more complete than the others and Love doesn't end when our sacred contracts are fulfilled.

Keep it real.  Enjoy all of your loves!

30)  Love's beautifully varied expressions are all facets of the same crystal! That love expresses itself in all these ways is a testament to the power and beauty of our never-ending spirits and the fact that All is One and Love is All there Is.

The earth is a magical place full of power and eternal connection


31) No matter what the question… love always remains the answer.

Become a Be Lover and Take the Pledge....

For the next 100 days I am going to consider the possibility there is another way!

Mels Love Land is available on Kindle on AMAZON 

Wherever you are in your practice.  All levels welcome.  For me, I have spent most of the past five years practicing loving everyone, then bringing love to every encounter, then looking at a world with love and finally returning firmly to the seat of being love.

With Infinite Love and Gratitude... Mel 

Melanie Lutz is a screenwriter living in Los Angeles, California

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