“This is what you have to put up with.”
“It’s going to be the same everywhere else.”
"We fight all the time, but who doesn't."
“Being unhappy is the way relationships work.”
“It’s easier to stay put.”
Everyone has an imprint a recovery file in their DNA the computer processing center of your being to reset the system. This is especially true for relationships. Every moment offers the opportunity to take a moment to download the necessary reset point to remain open and loving when the person in your life is driving you up a wall and you can't shake the pattern.
The relationship you are in can transform, it can re-animate, or you can come to the realization that it has served its purpose and it is time to move on.
Think of it like a file to download, a hard drive to recover, a restore point. The work is yours to do. The shift becoming possible within your being.
It is a return to the truth or better yet like the fabulous book by Marianne Williamson A Return to Love, and who isn't looking to do that.
Answer the call, open up to the light, the instinct, the flash, whatever it is.You want to be loved. We all do. Let's learn how to give it to ourselves. Let's learn to remain open to our feelings and wants and experiences with a loving discipline filled with care and gentleness and a full presence of our self. As terrific and extraordinary as we can be.
Give yourself a moment to find what feels opening for you to relax into the softness of your center. That space that knows everything that extends your vibration that generates an inner tune the likes of with radiates happiness.
The call for richer and fuller experiences with Love.
Wading into the deeper waters of your being.
All of you.
Participating in the Salvation of all that you hold dear.
Put yourself in charge of your internal universe and don’t give your power away.
Don’t forget the truth about yourself.
Don’t forget who you are.
If you have forgotten what Love is. Remember now.
It is do over time.
Own your choices. Make a commitment to step away from the pattern of anxiety and fear and judgment.
Remove yourself from the hell of your thinking.
See this moment of transformation in clarity understanding the idea that Love does not reside in an object but lives and breaths within. It is a level of deepness and openness a meeting place of all hearts, not an illusion outside of who you are.
Relationships are the way we learn and experience a flow of energy and interaction with our being-ness. Relationships are here to teach us. It’s been said, probably in a country song, that relationships are here for an hour, a day, a week, a year or a lifetime. It’s not for us to know but it is for us to be open to the learning and evolutionary opportunity.
Excerpted from Melanie Lutz's The Bare Melcessities: Walking Out. Waking Up. Getting Bare.